Anonymous sent: hey, can i ask what exactly is meant by top/bottom? i always thought it was just positions during sex, but you seem pretty emotional about it, so i was wondering if it was something more than that? is it like the relationship as a whole? thanks, sorry if this is a dumb Q c:
It’s not a dumb question!
I do mean top and bottom as in positions during sex. I’m into bottom!Cas and top!Dean and yes, I’m emotional about it~
There’s a whole lot of reasons why it can be more than just who puts what into whom during sex, but I don’t think I can summarize it. Sometimes things I like or don’t like emerge during discussions and I figure out something new or I revise something I thought before. It’s an ongoing dialogue I have with the pairing and with the dynamics of that pairing as portrayed in the show and in fanwork I might enjoy.
Though, let me just add that it doesn’t have to be more than a position during sex.
One of the reasons I like bottom!Cas so much is because I really like the visual imagination of bottom!Cas ;D
(Also, I often talk about how I would appreciate knowing what a story is gonna do in terms of top/bottom.)
Oh my gosh, you guys, I really loved that fanfic so much that I couldn’t get this scene out of my head for weeks! Freaking weeks of making headcanon after headcanon and nothing to show for it. It’s all thanks to lovely Steffi for drawing my commission in the most fantastic way!
Anonymous sent: Itf anon- I cried so much, more than is normal for me. Annnnndddd I probably like Amy the best but Keiren simon and Jem and my babies and I need them to be happy forever.
(I didn’t like Jem in the second season. She made me really angry and at one point I no longer felt a lot of empathy for her. Which is sad. I liked her progress in the first season a lot. But I felt the entire not undead Walker family members behaved badly and I didn’t enjoy them as much as I enjoyed them in earlier episodes…)